That’s the problem with putting others first; you’ve taught them you come second.
these photos were taken at the exact same time, each of one side of the sky after a storm
"I’m feeling hopeless again"
Real Friends - Maybe This Place Is The Same And We’re Just Changing + Snaps
The truth is that the more intimately you know someone, the more clearly you’ll see their flaws. That’s just the way it is. This is why marriages fail, why children are abandoned, why friendships don’t last. You might think you love someone until you see the way they act when they’re out of money or under pressure or hungry, for goodness’ sake. Love is something different. Love is choosing to serve someone and be with someone in spite of their filthy heart. Love is patient and kind, love is deliberate. Love is hard. Love is pain and sacrifice, it’s seeing the darkness in another person and defying the impulse to jump ship.
I’m not feeling that whole “if my attitude changes you better figure out what’s wrong” shit. Like, grow the fuck up. Tell me what’s bothering you so we can fix it or move the fuck on. Ain’t nobody got time for mind games and 21 questions. I ain’t a palm reader. You better get yo shit together.